Weekly Inspirations – July 8, 2019

Hey Loves, I’m hoping that you have been Flawsome, thus far. Meaning, you have acknowledged all your flaws, while still embracing yourself. It may be hard to believe but for majority of us, it’s our flaws that sets us apart and accentuates our beauty…And so I tell you: ” Go forth and be Flawsome this week, my darling.”

Weekly Inspirations – June 23, 2019

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a wonderful weekend. As I was preparing myself for the upcoming work week last night, I became inspired to share with you all. So every Monday morning, I will be sharing thoughts with you my loves. In doing so, I hope to be able to take inspiration from my own subconscious and in the process inspire a number of you, as well. This week’s focus is on finance. Find inspiration in creating experiences vice simply making consumptive choices masked as “financial goals”. Take pleasure in the journey to financial freedom and less pleasure in things you may be able to purchase to pacify the real financial issue going on, in your life. I know it can be hard to accept that the person you see purchasing the latest of everything is actually the opposite of goals because…well they seem to have it all. Well, in this day in age you can paint whatever picture you see fit to the rest of the world and very seldom is that vision a realistic depiction of what’s taking place. So focus on what financial success means to you and asses where you are now in comparison. From there, make it your goal to research, ask and take action to further yourself on your own journey. Only you can bring positive change to your life!

7 Ways to Fall in Love with Yourself…

1. Find your purpose. What brings you joy? What brings you excitement? What are your hobbies? What is the one thing you can’t get enough of? The one activity you get immersed in and before you know 3-4-5 hours have gone by. Identify the things that bring you joy and treasure them, grow them and never let them go.

2. Take Care of Yourself. It is your responsibility to teach those around you how you should be treated. Be an example. Treat yourself with compassion and respect and expect the same from others. Do for yourself what you want done for you by others. By not waiting for anyone outside of yourself to show you love you have in turn uplifted yourself worth to the best possible position.

3. Find your tribe. The 5 people you spend the most time with tells a lot about who you are as a person and tells even more about the way you value yourself. So who are your 5? and what does that show? How do you feel around these people? and how are they aiding you in becoming a better person? It is important that you surround yourself with people who will love and support you through your journey.

4. Love those who love you. Appreciating the people in your life who appreciates you will keep your mental health in a space of prosperity. If you’ve ever been in a toxic relationship wether platonic or romantic than this should really speak to you. Nothing is more detrimental to you self worth than the chasing of love and acceptance from those who will never see your value.

5. Take and maintain inventory. Let’s be honest, we all have bad days. On our worst days, its even harder to love ourselves but that’s when it matters the most. On those days, I encourage you to make a list. the list can be as short or as long as you need. List out all the great things about you…brag a little! list out the smallest, the simplest and the biggest of accomplishments. Read over your list and it will lift up your spirit. Keep the list on you for as long as you need.

6. Be Honest, always. Always trust and believe in your abilities. You’ve survived this far so you must be doing something right. Look at the lessons you’ve grown through and learn. Keep it all the way real with yourself because you know yourself best. You know the good intensions you had that didn’t play out as such and you know your heart. So even when you are misunderstood, never allow others to paint the picture of who you are. You are the expert on you and don’t you forget it.

7. Know that You are enough. If you don’t know, I’m here to tell you today that you are enough. No matter what is happening in your life right now, no matter how off the mark you’ve been lately, no matter what others are accomplishing and no matter the time of the day, You are more than enough. If you remember nothing else from this read, know this.

Self Love/Self Worth

I choose you, even when others deny you. I choose to honor and care for you, as you have and will always be my first refuge. Because I love you, it will show in everything I do, in every friend I make and every relation I pursue. Because I Love you, we will take the time to discover our own power and Happiness.

Always and Forever, Fannie